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im struggling to see where people have said you shouldnt feel annoyed

what people have been "here is what i do to not be annoyed bc some people just arent going to communicate with me because we dont know each other" and "I have no obligation to communicate with people I do not know and have no intention of seeing again"

you can be annoyed and also still be being kind of a brat about it

i feel the people coming in to a place where someone is venting in a location meant for that and going oh you shouldn't be annoyed it doesnt annoy me here is what to do instead or adults shouldn't communicate!!! are actually the ones who are being brats.

oh no

anyway

found the brat

people come to the rp woes thread for advice all the time

there is literally an entire thread above where people have vented a woe, someone offered advice, and the response was either "thanks i'll try that" or "that won't work for me but thanks"

THIS is the only thread where someone decided that advice meant they weren't allowed to feel annoyed

i mean, the advice given in this thread was "just don't feel annoyed about it"

it literally was not

anons were saying what they do to practice feeling better about their disappointment

if that's what you're getting out of their advice then you ARE overattached and maybe need to consider some independent hobbies in addition to rp

As one of the people who made the terrible faux pas of giving you advice after sympathizing, I find dwrp's allergies to communication very irritating indeed at times, but ghosting threads is one of the most benign manifestations of that tendency LMAO. At this point I have way less sympathy for your irritation over your threads getting dropped too. Maybe your partners are sensing something from you.

Parenting up I find your tone more the kind of thing people would sense bullshit from than the other anon's.

Hey quick question: Why do we have to have a certain level of relationship to communicate in a basic way? We’re making rp plans not unlocking social link cutscenes in a fucking Persona game.

because i am not entitled to other people's time when they don't even know me

some rando on the internet does not have to give me an excuse as to why they didn't tag me back for something because i understand they have a life outside of me

it's not that hard

You keep making this about something it’s not. Probably because it’s a convenient out from the normal expectation of clear communication. That doesn’t stop you from sounding socially stunted. Everyone whines here about why won’t people give concrit or talk to each other when there’s a problem and a lot of other things.

The common refrain is people are terrible at communicating and will twist themselves into knots inventing excuses not to just talk to each other.

But sure, you want to make this about respecting your time? That should go both ways. The person you ghost waits for what, weeks? Months? Then they’re off looking again all because your time is too precious to waste so you’d rather waste theirs.

It’s not entitlement. It’s people failing to launch as adults. Adults with the social skills and mutual respect for each others time.

apparently someone out here REALLY thinks that they should never have to speak to anyone who has not unlocked their level 5 backstory.

i feel genuinely sorry for anyone who knows them. they must be exhausting to deal with.

I know people like this and it’s a wasteland whenever they’re trying to get RP going. They can only ever get new people sucked in because the rest know they’re a flake who just wants to feel wanted.

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