socksuke_uchiha ([personal profile] socksuke_uchiha) wrote in [community profile] rpanons2024-10-02 08:27 pm

the masses thirst for the smallest drop of wank

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(Anonymous) 2024-10-17 04:53 pm (UTC)(link)
that's because this isn't a mod complaint right now. your friend needs to ask this player to stop tagging them, or otherwise lock threads to specific characters. if those things are ignored, then it's a mod complaint.

it sucks because it's an awkward conversation to have, but it's one that you do need to have. people have different expectations of what's acceptable or fun in rp. you have to let this person know that it's not fun for you.

dda

(Anonymous) 2024-10-17 05:52 pm (UTC)(link)
this right here. why do some people always jump to tattling to mom and dad as the first option instead of remembering they're adults and trying to communicate first. by all means, if you've brought up you're not okay with xyz behavior and they continue, then go talk to the mods, because then you can actually show proof of attempts to change things. but if i were a mod and players came to me to complain about ic behavior, then my first question would be what had they said to the player regarding it. if the answer is nothing, then i'm going to insist that you, the player, talk to the other player, like an adult to express in words that you like/don't like the thing they're doing.

i'm not going to preemptively give someone shit/a scolding/a warning/strike/ban when they haven't had a chance to alter behavior they might not even know is offputting.

Re: dda

(Anonymous) 2024-10-17 06:41 pm (UTC)(link)
could you lead a seminar, because some mod teams really suck at understanding and enforcing that. it's just who gets their report in first